Christmas used to sparkle but now it just stings right?
Let’s be honest—Christmas during or after a divorce feels more stressful than joyful.
You’re trying to balance co-parenting schedules that feel like a full-time negotiation, manage emotions that hit you out of nowhere, and carry that heavy, nagging guilt that whispers,
“Am I ruining this for the kids?”
If you’re nodding along, this guide is for you.
If you’re staring down the holidays thinking, “How am I going to get through this?”—I see you.
I’ve been you.
Christmas as a co-parent can feel overwhelming—balancing schedules, loneliness, and the guilt of not giving your kids the ‘perfect’ holiday.
But here’s the truth: Christmas doesn’t have to leave you feeling torn, overwhelmed, and exhausted. You don’t need to fight through another season of last-minute arguments and lonely silence.
You can create a holiday that feels calm, clear, and even… joyful.
🎄Silent Nights, Peaceful Plans🎄
The step-by-step guide to reclaiming your Christmas, finding peace in the chaos, and creating moments of joy you and your kids will actually cherish.
Do you remember when Christmas felt exciting?
When you’d plan the traditions, bake cookies, and see the magic in your kids’ eyes?
But now, it feels like:
🎄You’re constantly negotiating schedules—and every conversation with your ex feels like walking into a minefield.
🎄The silence is deafening when the kids aren’t with you. You’re staring at an empty sofa, wishing they were there making noise, even if it’s just arguing over a game.
🎄Guilt eats at you every time you hang an ornament or hear a carol because it reminds you of how things used to be. You wonder: “Am I ruining this for the kids?"
🎄And then there’s the exhaustion. You’re trying to hold everything together—working, co-parenting, decorating, and keeping things “normal” for everyone else, even when you feel far from okay.
It’s exhausting, overwhelming, and if you’re honest, Christmas just doesn’t feel like Christmas anymore.
But what if it didn’t
have to be this way?
What if Christmas could feel joyful again?
A Calm and Happy Co-Parenting Christmas Is Possible!
Imagine this:
✨ You’ve got a clear plan in place for pick-ups, drop-offs, and family events—no last-minute texts, no arguments, just clarity.
✨ The kids are happy because they know exactly what’s happening, and you can finally relax and enjoy the moment.
✨ When the house is quiet, instead of dreading it, you use it as time to focus on yourself (and actually enjoy it).
✨ You’ve let go of the guilt—you know you’re doing your best, and that’s enough.
✨ You’ve started new traditions that feel just as special, ones that are simple, joyful, and uniquely yours.
With Silent Nights, Peaceful Plans, you’ll go from feeling like Christmas is something you just need to survive, to making it a season you can actually enjoy.
What You’ll Get In This 50 Page Co-Parenting Christmas Guide
Here’s What You Get:
✅ Simple, Customizable Co-Parenting Template
✅ Scripts for Peaceful Conversations
✅ Emotional Well-Being Strategies
✅ Ideas for New, Joyful Traditions
✅ Mindset Exercises to Release Guilt
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BONUS:
Printable Holiday Affirmation Cards to keep you calm, centered, and confident throughout the season. If ordered before 7th December 2024
This guide gives you everything you need to take the stress out of co-parenting this Christmas:
💛Co-Parenting Made Easier
No more back-and-forth chaos or last-minute stress. With easy-to-use templates, you’ll map out the holiday schedule before it becomes a problem. The result? Clear plans that bring calm to you and your kids—because everyone knows what to expect.
💛Scripts for Tricky Conversations
Tense co-parenting conversations? Handled. This guide gives you word-for-word scripts for those awkward or heated moments, so you know exactly what to say—without overthinking or second-guessing yourself. Less conflict. Less stress.
💛Coping Strategies for Loneliness
When the kids aren’t with you, the silence can feel crushing. I get it. This guide includes proven techniques to help you process those emotions, soothe the quiet moments, and turn them into opportunities for rest, healing, and self-care.
💛New Tradition Ideas
The old traditions might not fit anymore—and that’s okay. This guide helps you create
new traditions that feel joyful, meaningful, and authentic to your life now. Whether it’s baking cookies in your PJs, movie marathons, or making handmade ornaments, these ideas will bring back the magic—for you and your kids.
💛Mindset Exercises to Let Go of Guilt
The guilt of “ruining Christmas” can weigh you down, but it doesn’t have to. This guide gives you practical mindset tools to quiet those nagging thoughts and focus on what really matters: love, connection, and showing up for yourself and your kids in a way that feels right.
💛Simple, Practical Tools
This isn’t some fluffy workbook—it’s packed with practical steps you can take right now to make this Christmas work.
I Get It—Because I’ve Been There.
Hey, I’m Linzi—and I know exactly how you’re feeling because I’ve been there myself.
I'm an award-winning divorce coach with years of experience helping women like you move beyond the pain of separation and build calmer, more confident lives.
With qualifications in:
🎓 Psychology
🎓 Counselling
🎓 Coaching
🎓 Master NLP Practitioner (Neuro-Linguistic Programming)
🎓 EFT Practitioner (Emotional Freedom Techniques)
But I’m not just qualified—I’m someone who’s walked this path myself, which is why I’ve combined personal experience with a science-backed approach to create tools that actually work.
When my marriage ended, Christmas was one of the hardest things to face.
I remember sitting alone, staring at the empty tree, and wondering how I was going to make the holidays okay for my kids when they weren’t even okay for me.
That’s why I created Silent Nights, Peaceful Plans.
Imagine waking up on Christmas morning feeling calm and in control, knowing everything’s been handled.
The kids are happy, new traditions feel special, and even the quiet moments—when they aren’t there—don’t feel heavy.
This guide gives you the tools to make that happen.
It’s not just a guide—it’s the lifeline I wish I’d had to help me figure out how to navigate the logistics and the emotions of co-parenting during the holidays.
This guide is about helping you take back control, ditch the guilt, and rediscover what makes Christmas meaningful again—for you and your kids.
Here’s what other parents are saying about the Silent Nights Co-Parenting Guide:
🌟“This guide saved Christmas for me and my kids! The templates made planning so much easier, and for the first time, I felt calm and in control during the holidays.”—Sarah W.
🌟“The scripts for handling conversations with my ex were a game-changer. I didn’t feel stressed or anxious, and we managed to agree on everything. My kids had the best Christmas!”—Emma R.
🌟“I’ve always dreaded Christmas since the divorce, but this guide helped me release so much guilt and start creating new, special traditions with my kids. It made such a difference!”—Louise B.
🌟“I finally felt like I wasn’t alone. The strategies to manage my emotions were incredibly helpful, and I could actually enjoy my time—even when the kids weren’t with me.”—Jess T.
🌟“Honestly, I was skeptical at first, but this guide delivered. I felt prepared, my kids were happy, and I didn’t cry once during the holidays—huge win!”—Rachel L.
“Is the Silent Nights Co-Parenting Guide really going to work for me?”
If you’re wondering this, let me reassure you:
✅"I don’t have time for complicated plans."
No problem! The guide includes easy-to-use templates that take the guesswork out of planning. You’ll create a clear, conflict-free Christmas schedule in minutes—not hours.
✅"What if my co-parent won’t cooperate?"
This guide gives you the tools to approach conversations calmly and confidently—scripts included. Even if your co-parent isn’t on the same page, you’ll feel prepared and in control.
✅"I’m still carrying so much guilt—will this really help?"
Yes. The mindset strategies in this guide are designed to help you release guilt, manage loneliness, and rediscover joy—no matter your circumstances.
✅"Is this worth the money?"
At just £12, this guide offers practical tools, proven strategies, and emotional support that will help you create a Christmas you and your kids will cherish. Peace of mind? Priceless.
Ready to Create the Christmas You Deserve?
🎁 For just £12.00
you’ll get instant access to the tools, templates, and support you need to make this Christmas work—no matter how complicated co-parenting feels.
This Christmas Can Be Different for You and Your Kids.
Don’t Let Stress Steal Your Joy This Year.
Let’s create a holiday that works for
you—one that feels calm, joyful, and full of moments you’ll actually want to remember.
You deserve this—and I’m here to help.
🎄Let’s Create a Holiday You’ll Love Again.🎄
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Limited-Time Bonus:
Buy before 7th December and receive my printable Holiday Affirmation Cards—free with your purchase!
These beautifully designed cards are packed with uplifting reminders to help you stay calm, let go of guilt, and feel empowered throughout the holiday season. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting stress, missing your kids, or creating new traditions, these affirmations will keep you grounded and remind you of your strength. 💛
